should pay someone else to do, that make wedding planning alittle easier? I need to decide what kind of wedding and where I want to have the wedding, but I don’t know what to ask for or look for while I’m doing this? If you have it catered will you get a discount if you only have them make the food and you do all the decorating yourself or if it is a package deal, do you have to take everything included? I do have a budget set, but I don’t know where else to start? There are so many options….and I don’t know what are the easy things I can do myself to save money? I honestly get more lost the more I research? After you have a rough guest list and budget done, what are the next steps? I feel like you have to know before hand what you want and are looking for and I don’t know sooo that means I am beyond confused?? Please help, I really need it! Thank you very much!